Keep Your Clothes On: Wearing Christ In Your Marriage

XO Marriage

Keep Your Clothes On: Wearing Christ In Your Marriage

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Pastor Nirup Alphonse explores what it means to get dressed every day—not for work, but for your marriage.
FormatPaperback
Publication DateMarch 9, 2026

Marriage is hard—because two sinners are trying to build one life.

But here's what most couples never realize: the strength of your marriage isn't found in what you take off in frustration, anger, or defensiveness. It's found in what you put on.

In Colossians 3:12–17, the apostle Paul reveals a wardrobe God designed specifically for relationships—compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness, patience, forgiveness, and love. 
These aren't just nice ideas for Sunday morning. They're the clothes that will hold your marriage together.

In this comprehensive companion to the free video course from XO Marriage, pastor Nirup Alphonse explores what it means to get dressed every day—not for work, but for your marriage. 

You'll discover:

  • Why your identity in Christ changes everything about how you treat your spouse
  • How to handle each other with care—even when you're hurt
  • The secret to letting peace be the referee in your home
  • What happens when God's Word dwells richly in your marriage
  • How to make every moment an act of worship

Whether you're newlyweds or fifty years in, in a beautiful season or barely hanging on, this course will help you stop reaching for the wrong clothes and start dressing like Jesus.

Your marriage doesn't need more techniques. It needs a new wardrobe.

Format:
Paperback
ISBN:
9781960870773
Page Count:
56
Publication Date:
March 9, 2026
Publisher:
XO Publishing
Trim Size:
7x10 inches

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Nirup Alphonse is the Lead and Founding Pastor of LIFEGATE, a multi-ethnic and multi-cultural church in Denver, Colorado. As a preacher, he has a unique way of proclaiming God's Word while weaving in stories, humor, and practical takeaways.