Is Love Enough?


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Gratitude and appreciation play a vital role in nurturing love and faith in a marriage.

Love is the foundation of any successful marriage. It is what brings two people together and keeps them united through thick and thin. However, love alone is not enough to sustain a marriage. It needs to be accompanied by trust, respect, and faith. You have to nurture your love and faith as a team. Ecclesiastes 4:9-12 says, “Two are better than one, because they have a good return for their labor: If either of them falls down, one can help the other up. But pity anyone who falls and has no one to help them up. Also, if two lie down together, they will keep warm. But how can one keep warm alone? Though one may be overpowered, two can defend themselves. A cord of three strands is not quickly broken.”

Ecclesiastes 4:9-10 reminds us that two are better than one because they can work together to achieve more support for each other when times get tough. So take a look at your partnership with your spouse and think about how you can make it even stronger. Take a few moments to discuss these questions with your spouse and identify opportunities to grow together.

  1. How do we communicate and make decisions as a team?
  2. Are there ways we can improve our teamwork?

Verse 11 highlights the importance of offering warmth and comfort to our spouse. In a marriage, this means being a source of emotional support and reassurance for each other. You gotta be there for your boo when they need it most, and that means showing them you care. Take a moment to think about ways you can provide warmth and comfort to your spouse. How can you be more compassionate, understanding, and empathetic toward them? Here are a few ideas:

  1. Listen when they’re talking and show you care about their feelings.
  2. Give them a hug or hold their hand when they need some extra support.

In verse 12, we read that two can defend themselves, illustrating the importance of standing up for and protecting one another. When someone tries to come for your partner, you gotta be ready to defend them.  So think about how you can support your spouse and show them you’ve got their back. both in private and public situations.


  1. How do we handle conflicts together?
  2. How can we support each other when someone tries to bring us down?


The passage concludes by saying that a cord of three strands is not quickly broken. In the context of marriage, this third strand represents God. So make sure to pray together and go to church as a couple. It’s important to keep growing your faith and making God a part of your marriage.

When you’re married, it’s easy to fall into a routine and forget to appreciate the little things. Gratitude and appreciation play a vital role in nurturing love and faith in a marriage.  Take a moment to think about what you appreciate about your spouse, and make sure to show them love and appreciation regularly. Here are some ideas to get you started:

  1. Write a love note or text to your spouse.
  2. Plan a surprise date night or do something special for them.
  3. Thank them for something they did for you, even if it’s something small.

Marriage is a journey where you walk hand in hand with your spouse, supporting each other and growing together in love and faith. Keep God at the center of your relationship, and allow His wisdom and guidance to strengthen your bond. May your marriage be a testament to the power of love, faith, and unity in Christ.

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